34 Things You Can Do RIGHT NOW To Guarantee A Closer, Intimate Relationship With Your Guy
- Follow through with something you said you would do, but never did.
- Show him exactly how to please you.
- Initiate a talk about painful or pleasurable memories of people and situations from your childhood together
- When you feel anger towards him, take a step back for 5 minutes. Look first at yourself and what you may have contributed to the anger.
- Be conscious of your self-talk after an argument (guess what? We can convince ourselves of almost anything when we’re angry!).
- Acknowledge and challenge your limiting beliefs about the way you feel about him.
- Do NOT talk to your friends or family in a negative way about your relationship issues.
- Learn Tantra ASAP.
- Feed him the last bite of that yummy dessert.
- Pay attention to the little things he likes- like his favorite candy or beverage. Surprise him with them occasionally.
- Defend him if someone says something negative about him.
- Focus on the things you love about him and who he really is instead of wishing he did “this” or had “that”.
- Be sure to welcome him home enthusiastically and warmly with affection.
- Cater to his inner-child within every once in a while (but avoid being Mommy… that’s just a turn off).
- Talk about things that interest him, like his favorite team or TV show.
- Support his goals and dreams by encouraging him to talk about them more.
- Let him retreat to his man cave.
- Control your emotions, don’t let them control you.
- Surprise him with special thoughtful gifts from time to time.
- Forgive.
- Make him feel like a man.
- Be trustworthy.
- Have discretion about private affairs.
- Show commitment by being consistent with your words and actions.
- Be transparent.
- Respect and take care of his belongings.
- Support his relationships with his friends and family.
- Be his shoulder to lean on.
- Find out what drew him to you, and don’t ever lose it!
- Be creative and switch things up between the sheets.
- Always take care of your personal hygiene.
- Giving him your full, undivided attention when he’s speaking.
- Be a seductress at least once a week (even if you don’t feel like it at first.)
- Display just the right amount of jealousy, but NEVER go overboard.
What will you do this week to start getting closer to your guy? Let us know!
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